I also forgot to mention that my H has gone to AZ to get physical therapy on his shoulder, he is staying with a friend and he will be there at least a month. He has mentioned a few times in the last few days that he wants me to come and visit him there so we can spend some time together. I really want to but I don't know if this is a good idea? Things are going well right now but we have only been apart for about two and a half weeks. If I went to see him, it would be about 3 weeks from now, and I probably would only plan to go for 3 or 4 days.