Separate and Filed walking on

[paul19510]

Hi Paul,

Just wanted to say I am sending you positive thoughts your way. One way to look at it is that, we really never know what the future holds. Really. I had no idea H was going to tell me while folding laundry that he didn't think he was in love with me anymore and had always loved me more than I loved him. I was floored. That was a bad surprise, but I never anticipated it to happen:)

Anyway, it looks like you are doing what is best for you and that is what is most important. I agree that working on the m is best, but honestly I think it really says a great deal about someone's character who is not willing to try together with their spouse for a year. But that is just me.

Take care!

hi GB. thanks for checking in on me. I appreciate the encouragement. W and I just don't want the same thing. We just don't., I have to accept what I can't change and keep going forward. Someone reminded me today that my kids saw me as living unhappily for years and trying to fix it unsuccessfully. they saw the repeated rejections and my seemly just living with that even though it was not what I wanted in a M. they didn't respect it. they do respect me now. I stood up for what I believe. its not what W wants, but at least I've stated my case and I am standing by my wants and needs.