Part 2-H moving out

[Georgiabelle]

BG,

Since we have similar wacky situations I wanted to mention something else to you. I know you mentioned some unknown woman raising your kids. I can see my own h bringing someone over after her final exams and him thinking it's great. Yeesh...


My youngest son still thinks his dad hung the moon. H cuddled with him every morning (that's why he volunteered to drive kids to school-he comes in, scoops him up, and goes to sleep in the am)and every night. I feel terrible for my sweet boy as occassionally he will say, "Mommy, please don't leave me forever like Daddy." Or he will say, "Remember when Daddy used to play with me." It breaks my heart. H has never inquired to me or the kids about their feelings. He can't bear to hear that.

However, my s10 and d9 said something to me the other day that almost made me cry. They said,"Thanks Mommy for always taking such good care of us. We are sorry you have to work so hard. But you've always been the one who did everything." Yuck..teared up writing that. But then they said, "Mommy, it's okay. It's always been the 4 of us. We are really a family of 4."
And I had to smile, because we do have each other. And I couldn't have 3 better kids. I talk with my older kids frequently and I know they love their dad. I know they are hurt by the way he treats them, but they never ask about him. I think they have this way of seeing the situation just as it is (which is completely f&*8ed ^)

You are doing such a great job:)