Just wanted to say I am sending you positive thoughts your way. One way to look at it is that, we really never know what the future holds. Really. I had no idea H was going to tell me while folding laundry that he didn't think he was in love with me anymore and had always loved me more than I loved him. I was floored. That was a bad surprise, but I never anticipated it to happen:)
Anyway, it looks like you are doing what is best for you and that is what is most important. I agree that working on the m is best, but honestly I think it really says a great deal about someone's character who is not willing to try together with their spouse for a year. But that is just me.
Take care!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
