I hear you. It seems ridiculous to me, all the hoops you have to jump through to get D. The time, the money, the pain the ass factor. It seems to be it would be a lot less work to just fix the M, but whatever.
I also hate the fact that this is where we are . . . disassembling everything we worked so hard for so many years to build. It's sad.
Didn't mean to hijack, just wanted to empathize.
M, you didn't hijack. and yes I agree with you. that's pretty much it. I HATE THIS WHOLE THING.....She said it must be what I ant because I've looked for ways out in the past and now I've seen a L. UGH. I asked for change. Not for the M to end. Oh well.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14