Thanks TL and BG.

I realize H is in crisis as he would have never hung out with college students and would have made of 40 year old men who did. Right along with people airing their laundry on social media-h always laughed at those people. And the premise of him moving out was to focus on being a better dad but the reality it is falling in love.

I'm in a little different boat. H is in on my insurance, I pay for the house, and I have always paid most of the bills. H won't hesitate to bring someone around the kids as he will think it makes him look a certain way. As a matter of fact, for the first time ever, h discusses money(with a very uncomfortable look on his face) as it was never a concern for him before.

Oh my. I'm going to try to sleep tonight as I wake up at midnight and can't go back to bed. I appreciate everyone's help.

I have a list of things to discuss with my therapist tomorrow. I want a good session. I have to work through some issues and I know it will all take time.

Hope everyone has a great day!



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer