Getting close to the end!!

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And I'm sure she won't hesitate on getting them to me as fast as she can.

Really? Why are you so sure? Do you have a special hability to see the future that others dont have??
I am sure if I dont drink water I get dehidrated, if I dont eat I will develop anemia... Those things I do know for sure, or almost...

And also you want to confront the OM? Well you can do whatever you want, at one point you were also the OM, or dont you remember when your W talked to you about her past relationships?? Do you know why you married her? Because you were a guy who accepted her no matter what...it didnt affected you her past relationships....but wait...now it does?
Here is my question, when you marry her, did you marry her because you love her unconditionally OR because you were signing to have one more property?
I think maybe you tough...if I marry her I own her hehehe, well guess what, you dont own her, she is free to do whatever she wants, of course she is oit of the relationship with you and that hurts, but you cant control what she does, you can only control what you do...
Let her enjoy her affair, chang her hair, divorce you, remarry, do whatever she wishes, just get a bag of popcorn and watch the show, with a smile on your face, set boundaries to yourself, sandi rules and keep moving on, thats the only chance you have to see her coming back, because she wants to be with you by choice, not because you dictate her to be with you, and if she doesnt come back... Thats fine, everything will be fine.

Now, Jesus was a man, if you read his biography (the bible) you will see how confident he was, and how over the top, because he was the "son of God" ?? I dont believe in that... I believe he was a strong and confident man, he was a man who accepted everybody no matter what they did, and always forgive, because of that everybody tough he was the son of God, but at the end he was just a human being, with conditions that made him different, he loved himself, he was respectful and accepted everything that happened....man they abussed him and acussed him of stuff that you couldnt handle at the emotional level that you are now, they killed him and his last words were to forgive his muderers, so imagine what level of acceptance he had...
Today millions of human beings admire him and follow him...they also defend his death and guess what? All that happened millions of years ago but the man its more famous that Coca Cola.
I am not telling you to become Jesus, but to accept your W no matter what she does, because not accepting nothing its gonna change... Some couples reconcile once they accept the separation...you know which ones succeed? Only the ones that accepted what the other person did without judging...

If your W tells you today, hey hon lets get back together... i guarantee you, inside your head all your feelings will go towars the affair and in a few months the D then will be with no return point.
So take this time to accept what she is and what she has become, and time will take care of the rest...