I know how you feel about the OM. Unfortunately that will just get your W angry. IF the OW is who I think it is my H has known her for years, longer than me. She was married to a friend of his when we first got together, I've met her. 10 years ago when we separated they had an online thing/EA. From my point of view I wonder why he feels she has something to offer other than being uninhibited sexually. She obviously has no self-esteem if she's been pining away for my husband all these years. She was in an abusive relationship at one point as well...I guess we have to wait until they run there course, as hard as it is. Trust me, I've wanted to call, send letters and emails...but the question is, will this get us closer to our goal? The answer is obviously NO!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
