tbm4evr you have the same thoughts as I do and my W said the same thing. "It can get worse too before it gets better." I'm with you, it will only be better, it can't get worse. Two people know what not to do now within the relationship. If anything when the relationship is better both people will look back and say I can't believe we used to be like that, that's how the mind works, its natural.
Are they really happy? Is it what the really want? I'm perplexed that WAW think this will all just go away, the faster they progress. Its a shame WAW can't step back from the situation and make a rational decision.
Its still a positive y'all still live in the same house. Keep trying and God bless.
___________________________________________________________ M: 32 W: 26 M 7 months, T 4 years M: 2nd M W: 1st M No kids
living separately 1/26/14 W files D 2/24/14 D final 4/28/14
