Oh and another thing that could help is to choose a role model for yourself. Someone who exudes confidence and strong self-esteem. Then emulate them. You can even change your username to something more empowering. Who do you think I modeled myself after?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.