Unbidden - Thank you for your response. To clarify, the R conversations that my recent post referred to were not new conversations. It's really more me rehashing things in my own head. Since our conversation last week, which is what led me to start posting on this forum, I have not initiated any R conversations and he has not either. I'm really working hard to give him the space he wants, even though it s*cks.
Tonight D7 is staying with her cousin for a sleepover. She wanted to bring her sleeping bag, but she left it at H's apartment when he picked her up from a prior sleepover. She mentioned it to him last night and he said he would drop it by my sister's today. I sent him a text to remind him after I dropped her off. He called me a couple of hours later to let me know that he dropped off the sleeping bag. I thanked him. He then told me that he was going to have dinner with a friend and then going out for drinks. I just said, "Have fun. Talk to you soon." It feels awkward to me, but it keeps our interactions pleasant and (hopefully) keeps the pressure off of him.