The thing that is driving me crazy is that I love my W soooOOO much. I've never stopped. I know I was far from the best H, especially the past two years, but overall I thought we built a BEAUTIFUL life together. It wasn't perfect but it was amazing and it was only going to get better. She was my partner and I considered her to be my best friend. How do I just let go of that???
Dude, there is nothing wrong with loving her. But that alone isn't enough for a M or R. Love her....but accept her decisions and do what's best for you. Standing up for yourself, standing up for your relationship with your kids, that has nothing to do with her or your love for her. Not bending to her will doesn't mean you don't love her.
