Scorp, you are at this point -- You can hope for the best, but you have to expect the worst. And it may be much worse than you can fathom. In my divorce, my xH alleged that he should get full custody because he had always been the primary caregiver of our two girls. I was completely shocked. That was a total lie given the fact that I had actually worked at home so I could take care of the kids while he had a full-time job. But, he seemed to believe that tale somehow and actually convinced his lawyer of the same thing. Turns out though that my eldest daughter had won five straight annual spelling bees at her school and he'd not come to a single one-- even though he worked less than a mile from her school and ran the company so he could leave to attend school functions whenever he wanted. But I had been to every single one of her spelling bees and I had pictures of every single one and could tell the judge which word she won with each year. That is how I had to win, by disproving lies with physical evidence. Be prepared for her to do and say the most outrageous things, she may even believe them. JUST BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING and start getting your evidence together. PROTECT YOURSELF.
