I found it funny when my h asked "are you ok?" or "what's wrong" when I was being quiet & reading alone a couple weeks after BD. Really?? What do you think is wrong?? No I'm not ok... of course I answered "i'm fine" but wtf?


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs