It is hard understanding what to do when a personal 180 goes against the rules. I also find it hard to understand what to do about helping with the D. It's my H's desire so I feel he should be on the hook to work for it without my help. I do realize that makes him angry and reinforces that he wants a D. No answers from me, sorry, just sympathy...
LL 43 H 51 T 8 M 6 SS 17 15 S 6 D 3 H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14 DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb So confused
