Scorp I met my exw when I was 22. I had spent most of my adult life with her. She file when I was 48. I had planned my entire life around her my D the house and the dogs. I was a real mess. After she filed she told me I didnt need a lawyer. That we would sell the house and she would pack me a brown bag and send me away. Sadly I believed her. Why wouldnt I? She was my W my best friend my life. I resisted what the vets told me here. Wasnt until some people here were able to contact me personally. They saved me. Im 100% responsible for my failures. But exw is that much responsible. My exw became someone I never knew she was or had it in her. My buddy from the south (who I wont mentioned cause he is on a gluten free blood type diet and might get a bit cocky) directed me to put on my business hat. I told my lawyer what I wanted and that my life was in his hands. He did exactly that. I got everything I could. And I dont regret it. It stinks but you must stand up for yourself because your exw is doing just that.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”