Working on Divorce Busting every Day!

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Had a personal setback today. We went together to a child's appointment. (His choice) When the young hygenist came out to tell us about our doctor - she would not look at me. (Incredibly flirtatious - I could just tell - And it hurts to know that he is free to pursue whomever he wishes now) Directed all of her attention to him like he was some kind of hero because he was there. I'm thinking do you see our 8 Month old son. This too can be you as he leaves you in a few years. Yes projecting. But it just burns me up that ALL these women see him as this hero dad when I feel/know he is destroying our family.
I believe that has been one of big issues. He is an important figure in our area. Tons of woman on facebook are constantly telling him how great he is. In the past we would laugh about it and he would tell me about it or we would joke it off. But now I believe it has went to his head.
To his credit today he kept saying - What else do we need to know? Is there anything else we can look for tonight?
I felt like telling the lady - Ma'am I need to know this information because I'm the one taking care of our daughter tonight.
Vets any way to get past this - I know not my issue but still hurts bad!
Also I have realized if he does come back it will not be because I let him walk all over me financially or with regards to custody of our children.
I'm standing up more and more in these especially the financial aspects.