Hi Melissa I was going to say. It sounds like when he is writing to you that he is writing arguments to opposing council. Can you think of him that way. I have heard (I could be wrong) that men go after their wives in a negative fashion when it relates to the the kids because they know that is our weak point. (As it should be) We need to go after them financially. (That is their weak point) I know when I used to argue with my H it was almost impossible because as a L and former military guy he just would not give in. Surprisingly when I called his bluff and filed divorce papers first and had him served at his political public office - He told me later he thought - Oh sh&t this isn't going to be easy. It's going to be like Kramer vs. Kramer. Stand firm. Fight back. If/when he comes back it will because you have changed - If he sees you as weak - I think lawyers always think they are smarter than everyone else - (no offense to you Melissa - how about male lawyers:) Good luck. Call his bluff. Direct all legal contact through your attorneys.
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014
