I'm 99.9% sure my W's biggest fear is losing time with our kids for anymore than the every second weekend she's dictated. It's going to be hard to convince her that it is in our kids best interests to have me in their life much more than that.
Full custody for her = full child support to her
Shared custody = ???? support to her
Her motivation may be more finacial than you think.
In my case with 50/50 custody and we both work there is no support paid either way. We each support the kids when they at our respective homes. And expenses like health insurance, medical bills, school fees, and agreed upon extracurricular activities are split 50/50.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
