I'm so sorry I'm pregnant due next month and we have a 2 year old so I totally understand the complete despair. My H still is home and has no intentions at this point in leaving (so he says) and he goes on as if nothing is wrong. I stopped all R talk and things are better but I am leaving not to have ANY expectations or read into his actions. I feel he is having an EA but denies it tooth and nail so I've been going mad but am vowig to LET IT GO... From the short time I've been dealing with this what's helping me is just journaling my feelings and truly giving him all the space he wants and then some. I will DB as long as I can hold out but when the day comes and I'm done... Ill be truly done. Till then ill fight fight fight.
M:32 H: 40 D1: 3 D2: 9 months old Bomb dropped: 2/4/14 (I was 7 month preg) Moved out: 11/15/14 OW confirmed and supposedly dumped 1/15
I'm pregnant due next month and we have a 2 year old so I totally understand the complete despair. My H still is home and has no intentions at this point in leaving (so he says) and he goes on as if nothing is wrong. I stopped all R talk and things are better but I am leaving not to have ANY expectations or read into his actions. I feel he is having an EA but denies it tooth and nail so I've been going mad but am vowig to LET IT GO... From the short time I've been dealing with this what's helping me is just journaling my feelings and truly giving him all the space he wants and then some. I will DB as long as I can hold out but when the day comes and I'm done... Ill be truly done. Till then ill fight fight fight.