Thanks Barrybran, good points I definitely need to let my actions speak right now. It could get bumpy (or bumpier I should say) but I've got to do it. I've told my W, not asked, that I will be picking my D6 up from school this Friday. She will likely say no but I'm going to be there anyway. That will create some waves but I can't let her push me around anymore.
I'm 99.9% sure my W's biggest fear is losing time with our kids for anymore than the every second weekend she's dictated. It's going to be hard to convince her that it is in our kids best interests to have me in their life much more than that.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS
I definitely need to let my actions speak right now. It could get bumpy (or bumpier I should say) but I've got to do it. I've told my W, not asked, that I will be picking my D6 up from school this Friday. She will likely say no but I'm going to be there anyway. That will create some waves but I can't let her push me around anymore.