Personally, if you want to bring in more income and have a way of doing it that's great for you. But is it really a good idea to do it for her stress levels? That sounds like pursuing and having expectations. Forgive me if reading it wrong, I haven't read the whole thread.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10