Bea,

I am so sorry that your XH is still at this. Seems to me that he's unable to let go of the bitterness and holds a ton of anger toward you. Go figure.

Since this keeps cropping up and up, you might want to consider calling in the Big Guns...our beloved Archangels. You might want to check out Doreen Virtue (Hay House author) if you are open-minded spiritually. They've helped me when I was in a real bind a time or two. I've actually experienced the "impossible" happen to me. Whatever works best for you.