What is your time limit on a response ??

What will a response that you can live with entail ???

What ACTIONS will you take at that time ???


I will wait to hear from her until next week but I'm sure she will send back a similar response to the ones she's been sending within a day or two.

If she will agree to serious discussion about 50/50 and committing it in writing, signed etc, then I would hold off filing for D. I would still get the lawyer going next week, maybe even this week, just so everything is ready to go if need be.

My actions will be to first negotiate with her if she's willing. If she's not willing my lawyer will be given the green light to go ahead with everything she can to give the best chance of 50/50 with our kids.

Again, everything you said in your post is pretty much spot on.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS