This is a message I've wanted to send to my W for a long time:
"W, there are two roads for us to take going forward.
The one to the left leads toward divorce and living separate lives and the road to the right leads toward healing and building a healthier life with each other.
Please realize I never want to return to the relationship we just left behind but to build a new one we are truly proud of and to give our kids the life they deserve."
But, there's that thing about cheeseless tunnels so here is what I'm going to send:
"W,
I understand that you would like to settle the house quickly. Our kids are our first priority and I would like to develop a parenting plan with you as soon as possible so the kids are able to spend equal time with us. Please let me know what you need from me in order to make this happen.
I will be at D6's school to pick her up on Friday "
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS