You're right Drew, I hope my W will see it that way. She likely can't face to not be with our kids any more than she already has. She is very, very attached to them, as am I, so the thought of giving up half her time with them may be what turns this into a war.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS