Well Scorp, in this life there are many things kept in history because different caracteristics, most of the epic ones were saved because the main protagonist did things in a different way, Unbidden just told you how her fight ended, and look now things in her sitch are calm and both parents share custody, I am here to listen to you and give you my support and tell you that whatever you do its not a mistake, its a spiritual oportunity to grow, so whatever you choose will be fine and its the way that its supposed to be done. If you cant pace all this then dont, youll be fine no matter what but as one of the member who I like to see as an inspiration, read MrBond sitch... He could had reacted with hate when his now reconcilled wife took the kids and stopped contacting him for 3 long years... He choosed to believe in his vows and to accept the situation, I am not asking you to do the same. You are free to do what you think its the most conforting choice but remember something while you are doing this: Hate will pass, war will end and all that will be replaced with calmness peace and love. So dont act based on her or your feelings now, act in a way that will make you feel at peace in the future.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
