ye21, I agree. That has been my thinking all along through this. What I have been doing has not been an act. I love my W and my kids more than anything in this world. I would do anything for them. I made some big time mistakes during our M and they were the main reason things have gone the way they have. The LAST thing I want to do is go to war with my W over my kids. The sad thing, my situation is very common, it happens every day, and families are being torn apart by it. The court system is not designed to bring families together, it creates adversaries that have to battle one another with everything they have to be "right" and "win".


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS