Thanks unbidden. Hard would be an understatement. My biggest struggle is the aspect of her seeing my changes if we have NC. I have not seen her in person for several weeks. I do recall her making a comment the final time we talked in person that she hopes that we can get to the point of dating again, I hope she really meant that.

My changes are going good, and I have a list of 180s I could be doing but I'm not sure how to implement those without living together.

As they say, THE STRUGGLE!

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M: 32 W: 26
M 7 months, T 4 years
M: 2nd M
W: 1st M
No kids

living separately 1/26/14
W files D 2/24/14
D final 4/28/14