Mach, thanks for that info. The problem again isn't so much what the law is or isn't, it's what the courts will do or not do to enforce it. If I had filed an order for my kids to be brought back to my province right after my W left there was a decent chance it would have happened. Looking back knowing what I know now, it's something I should have done.
The problem is, at the time I felt almost certain that, at the very least, I was going to get a chance to work on my M with my wife, it was just a matter of time. I was wrong, obviously. Nothing I can do about that now. So, I am going to send one more email asking for her to talk to me about setting up a parenting plan for our kids. If/when she ignores the message I will be on the phone with my L to get things going on the next steps.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS