Originally Posted By: OneDay
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Wife,
I was thinking more and looking at my schedule, and I am able to be flexible for the week of Spring Break.
Please let me know what works for you, and I will accommodate as best as I can.

Sorry for the confusion
One Day

I sooooooo do not want to do that ^^^^^^^. Is this the part where the LBS has to do the bulk of the work? Do I text, do I call? Arararararhhahagha. I have so many issues to deal with. The FEAR is taking control.



Stop....

Slow the F down and do what is right....

Did you make a decision based out of fear ??

Was it the right decision ???

And even if she is going out with some D-bag from the 7-11 down the street...

That is more time for you to be with your children....

See my point ???



Originally Posted By: 1day
Originally Posted By: Mach1
Don't worry about what SHE thinks of you....
I would worry more about what you think of yourself...
That's all that matters for now....
I know, but Im still feel like Im being an A$$ to her sometimes. Im trying hard not to be and A$$, but I still feel I am. I feel like im being walked on, like I have to defend myself, my feeling.

Honestly, If I didn't know there was OM I would have been happy to switch with her. Just knowing makes it extremely difficult. And I know I have no control over the situation. I guess its my Pride.

Am I alone here? Does anyone else say something, then a few hours or days later realize you shouldn't have said something or come across a certain way? How does one change that?



If you feel like you are being an Asshat, then you probably are...

And if you don't like being an Asshat ???

Then find out why, and change it....

Google "controlling behaviors" and see if anything stings a bit for you....