One day, When she was telling you these things that hurt so much did you Validate and Empathize? Remember these are her feelings and you must allow her to have them without getting defensive back at her.
I did, very much so. I did not get defensive over these things. They were true.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
