When she was telling you these things that hurt so much did you Validate and Empathize? Remember these are her feelings and you must allow her to have them without getting defensive back at her.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014