So yes, I have made a FT appointment on Thursday. I have met with a lawyer, who has been giving me guidance in what to do to keep my kids, as well as my finances. They have also been advising me as we go down this road with respect to staying in the family house, and the ramifications of her leaving. I have taken over mortgage payments etc as per her recommendations.
Our activity schedule is going to be developed on Thursday. I worry about the kids safety on their own with their mom. I have not decided how to approach this. It is very difficult, as my kids emotional health and physical health is key as well.
I don't think I have gone soft. I agree with you, it's a matter of not reacting with emotion, and dictating based on my plan. Totally agree, poor emotion based decisions and non rational person equals fire for sure.
Slow, steady, and smart is the way to go. I need to slow down and be smart with my interactions and decisions. Gut wrenching and scary times for sure.
