Detach. Stop trying to control the outcome. Stop looking for angles, quick fixes. Work on YOU, find YOU, it really is a gift of time in a crappy package. Rebuild YOU and YOUR life the way YOU want it to be. If they come out of the fog, they can catch up to YOU.
^^^ is all tough, tough stuff, took me a long time to get and master these things. Everyone gets where they need to be in their own time.
this is great stuff here - I read similar things every day but it's always good to be reminded so thank you for posting it!! Glad you went out and had such a good time, that 80's place sounds fantastic, wish they had that around here!! Keep up the good work.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
