Hi T-boned! Thanks for your post, I do appreciate that quote and I had actually read it on these boards when I was perusing through everyone's stories. It does ring true - and I did get the "there's no other woman, i'm too effed up for that" but I already know there is at the very least an EA which may have turned into a PA by now but I don't know and I don't want to know, it's his business now. Yes, here it is only 60 days between signing/filing and divorce finalization. I did not contest - he knows I don't want it, I said so the first few weeks when I was trying to "fix" things and pursued him, then I figured out I was doing it all wrong. There was no sense in angering him further so I signed them. I'm not sure what date he turned them in - can only guess it was Feb 7th when he was off work for a doctors appt so it would be 60 days from then, which is April sometime. Yeah it's pretty fast!! Thanks for the therapy tip & comment about church. I think I will do both. I hope you have a good visit with your company, that will be a good distraction!! I joined another site just to read up more information on MLC - have you been to others? It is pretty much the same information but I like reading it from other sources. It just reinforced how long a journey this really is. I did feel better somehow when I discovered it was MLC because it was an explanation and it fit. I realize I will not be "special" or an exception and that this is going to take forever and a day and even then no guarantee so like Matthew McConaughey says, you gotta just keep on livin' you guys are awesome - thank you so much for your support!!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
you guys are awesome - thank you so much for your support!!
