This forum is like a journal for me but I get input from others which is so nice -thank you. W arrived home at midnight ..As I expected she stopped at the local tavern otw home. She said she had emails/texts to get out following the meeting and wanted to do it there. Of course she could have done that from home but chose not to. In the past we would have argued when she got home hours after her meeting ended. Tonight she walked in as I was getting ready to call it a night. She was chatty about her meeting and conversation she had with people at the bar so I just listened, we had pleasant conversation for an hour or so and then I said goodnight. No talk again about our relationship, M and D. Last week she mentioned that her lawyer was drafting a response to my response to her "divorce complaint". I had asked to see it before they filed it so that we could try to agree to it instead of going back and forth between the lawyers. She said ok but made no mention of it again tonight. I don't know if she will end up allowing me to look at it because her lawyer will likely advise her otherwise. Dont know if i should I bring the issue up sometime this week if she doesn't or just let it go?
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
-thank you. W arrived home at midnight ..As I expected she stopped at the local tavern otw home. She said she had emails/texts to get out following the meeting and wanted to do it there. Of course she could have done that from home but chose not to. In the past we would have argued when she got home hours after her meeting ended. Tonight she walked in as I was getting ready to call it a night. She was chatty about her meeting and conversation she had with people at the bar so I just listened, we had pleasant conversation for an hour or so and then I said goodnight. No talk again about our relationship, M and D. Last week she mentioned that her lawyer was drafting a response to my response to her "divorce complaint". I had asked to see it before they filed it so that we could try to agree to it instead of going back and forth between the lawyers. She said ok but made no mention of it again tonight. I don't know if she will end up allowing me to look at it because her lawyer will likely advise her otherwise. Dont know if i should I bring the issue up sometime this week if she doesn't or just let it go?