Mel, thanks for the input. I am still getting my head used to the idea that things with my W are basically over. I hadn't really thought I was being a doormat but looking back on the past 5 months, yeah I suppose I was. I may have lost a bit of respect from her in doing that too. Oh well, nothing I can do about that now, live and learn.

I haven't sent her anything yet but I'm thinking of going with Barry's suggestion.

W,
I understand that you would like to settle the house quickly. Our kids are our first priority and I would like to develop a parenting plan with you as soon as possible so the kids are able to spend equal time with us. Please let me know what you need from me in order to make this happen.

I will be at D6's school to pick her up on Friday.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS