There really are two issues here. One is, what to do about this field trip issue. I would like to be able to work it out with my H, but am at a a loss as to how to communicate with him about it.
The second is what a jerk he is being, but that's just me bitching.
I am beginning to feel like my H is a complete nut job. He sent me that email about the field trip this morning. This afternoon he emailed this to me: (after I told him last week that I would not be responding to any communication regarding divorce matters, bc that needed to go through the Ls.)
My lawyers need to know whether you are going to contest 50/50 parenting time so that they can order a parental responsibility evaluation if necessary. Are you willing to let tell me that or do I need to tell them to talk to your lawyer?
I don't know why he is so confused about this stuff, he obviously is not talking to his lawyer, or he is just not listening. He is confusing parenting time with legal custody. And there is nothing to "contest," since there is no default to 50/50. Finally, he knows not to talk to me about this stuff, so I'm not sure why he sent that, unless he is trying to rile me up, or let me know he's serious about his threats to go for 50/50, since I wasn't being "cooperative."
Then, just now, he emailed me some photos of the kids from the wedding he took them to in November. I guess just to be nice . . . .
I really enjoyed it better when my H was not contacting me at all. Of course, back then I was sad that he wasn't contacting me. Careful what you wish for, right??
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
