Does anyone know of any success stories where couples have made it through this twice and reconciled?
It's been 7 years since our first S and this one. My H has said that he feels like D is inevitable because we're in the same place again. He does concur that we didn't actually work on any of the issues the first time around. The first time, he wouldn't even tell me what any of the issues were. He said it was all him and he just didn't think marriage was right for him. I really thought he was just having a hard time adjusting to having a baby, so I didn't take a deep enough look at myself. When I asked him why he didn't say anything about my issues when we went through this before, he said that he was just too afraid of hurting me.
All that rambling is really just to say that I see this time and last time as different because I'm working on myself instead of just assuming that it is all H's issue. Still, I'm looking for some hope that couples can make it through a second time.
