Thanks Unbidden smile Sometimes I'm so busy being bummed about this sitch that I forget that I'm a pretty darn good mom!

Lost and Julie: It is amazing how we can't count on these people anymore. Some days I feel like the only thing I can rely on H to be is unreliable. And you're right..I am so blessed to have family here to help me. Julie, I am so bummed your family is so far away. Sometimes I wonder what your life would look like right now if they lived closer.

GB: Our H are so similar. I wish we had anything else in common smirk Julie's H is also very angry. You should check out her thread-she's been very patient.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014