M-this svcks! Before the BD you would have likely handled this how you wanted to without any hassle...but now life is different. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Things shouldn't have to be this difficult and it creates further fear by wondering how you will coparent with actual tough stuff like was previously mentioned. It makes me want to shake your H. Why can't he see who he's really hurting?!
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014