Totally agree with 3, 25, and K_G

M-this svcks! Before the BD you would have likely handled this how you wanted to without any hassle...but now life is different. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Things shouldn't have to be this difficult and it creates further fear by wondering how you will coparent with actual tough stuff like was previously mentioned. It makes me want to shake your H. Why can't he see who he's really hurting?!


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014