What's next? The red convertable? Was the girl's name Bambi?
No 2x4's for venting a horrible event. I'm so sorry GB! These H are not living lives that are sustainable. Whenever I discover something awful like this I take a deep breath and look around me at home. I am with 2 amazing kids that laugh every day with me. I have a warm family home. The phone rings with friends and family every evening. I can lay my head on my pillow and sleep knowing I've made decisions I can be proud of.
Our H have NONE of those things. They are living empty lives that will prove to be unfulfilling. The problem is that by the time they figure that out, the collateral damage is astounding.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014