Thanks gabbysmom. What the current sitch boils down to is that I want 50/50 with our kids, my W wants to maintain status quo with our kids and get her hands on our money so she can "move on". If we can't agree on either then our sitch could take years to be decided.

She can't get money from me unless I agree to go along with her wishes and I can't get 50/50 with our kids unless she agrees. That is, without lawyers and a long court battle.

I am almost sure she will not agree to my request for 50/50 right now but I will give it one more shot. If she doesn't acknowledge me and continues as she has then things are going to get much worse. Maybe it's a case of things needing to be worse before they can get better, we'll see.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS