Today he feels like dividing your artwork will get him closure, but maybe tomorrow he won't be so sure he wants a divorce. And last I checked you don't have a crystal ball, ha ha. So why are you thinking this is their last birthdays as a family? A lot can happen in a year so why not enjoy this time where he's being polite and not worry about what will happen in the future?
Stay strong this weekend. You got this MamaB! [/quote]
You are right, I don't have a crystal ball. Thank you for the encouragement!
The weekend went pretty well. H was not feeling well and spent most of his time upstairs. We split the girls soccer games because they were at the same time in two different places. I made dinner each night which D ate, I supported him with a disagreement with D16. We were both not overly friendly, but polite. There was no R talk or D talk, For the most part I had a very positive attitude. These weekend visits will come to an end soon as H formally live in new town by April 1st.
I'm still giving H too much real estate in my thoughts. I need a way to stop thoughts as soon as they start, That is my goal this week, I want to try to figure out some replacement thoughts that I go to. I started cleaning oout the garage today, this a huge project that H usually does, but I decided to do it myself. This should be a good distraction.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014
