However, Melissa, Is this really an issue you want to fall on your sword for? Think about it. Do not succumb to the "it's unfair!" We all know that.
and this ^^^^
is where you are put to the test, where being the best person you can be will be defined.
Stop focusing on what he says, and how and why.
If you cannot resolve an issue of a field trip, what will you do when you guys have to discuss new schools, drugs, bad influences, alcohol, grades, partying, curfews... Pointing the finger and finding all the negatives will keep you from finding ANY common ground to co-parent effectively.
Focus on getting rid of the anger which is clouding you at the moment. You've been absorbed in it for a while now and it's keeping you stuck.
You and your kids deserve better.
(((melissa)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
