I know you want everyone to be happy and have a nice life. Unfortunately, we dont have any control of all of that.
Family is important, Nero. I'm sorry. I know it is hard to realize stuff about our family. I have come to learn that people love the best way they know how, based on what they know. Sometimes they fall short. But, there isnt anything we can do about that.
I know it is hard to get our minds around it. That we were wrong in what we thought. Takes some time to get to acceptance of it all.
You have some tough times ahead of you. I wouldnt worry about figuring out all that stuff now. Plenty of time for that.
When you are ready though, you do need to figure out who you want in your life. Life is too short to have people in it that dont accept who you are.
It is sad to see how family acts during times like these.
It would be nice to be able to save people from their lives. But thats not the way it works so we just do the best we can.
You will get through it all. You have no other choice, really. Remember to take care of you during it all. And to not allow others to make you feel badly.
