Not much more to add other than reaffirm what senor Mach said..
This needs to be YOUR schedule.
From a court perspective, they are going to want to know what the schedule is FOR EVERY holiday and vacation day. So I do need to figure that out OR you can explain to your ex what YOU can support. Lemme give you some examples:
You can request that the court allow for a "flexiable" parenting plan with a default schedule. The default can look like this.
Wed from 3pm to Friday at 3PM week one.
Wed from 3pm to Monday at 3PM week two.
As it relates to school vacations and holidays, the above default will be used unless both parties agreed otherwise.
In the above you are stating what YOU want and also, allowing for some flexiablity.
That said, what Mach pointed out is sooo true. Stop thinking like you are doing this togehter. Your not. Assuming a 50/50 parenting plan is not easy. YOU will need to figure out what you can support. You can no longer EXPECT your W to figure it out for you.
Google parallel parenting - it may help.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
