It should be less of an offer and more of "what do you need from me to agree to 50/50 time with the kids?" If she tells you you get to work on what she wants. If she doesn't, you get to work with your lawyer. No point continuing down cheeseless tunnels.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014