In retrospect, I do wish I had called the police. The risks are far too great, and it's my kids at risk. Good advice
Just had a question, I've noticed there is huge variation on exposure. I believe the DB technique is to not expose the affair.
You would be correct -- definitely not in the DB catechism. It worked for me (and others), but I do wish I had exposed to a smaller circle of people.
You can google it, as it's certainly not some fringe method -- it's well within the mainstream infidelity movement. Just very strong opinions on both sides.